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“Why is it so different from the beginning?”<\/p>\n
“The wild time from the beginning of the relationship is over: how do we cope with everyday life?”<\/p>\n
“How much closeness can\/do I want to give or have?<\/p>\n
“Why does the daily routine kill so much of our feelings for each other?”<\/p>\n
“Why does everyday life eat all the beauty we had?”<\/p>\n
“How do we remain a couple as well as being responsible parents for our children?”<\/p>\n
“Why the same argument again?”<\/p>\n
“Why is our sex so rare\/ boring\/irrelevant?<\/p>\n
“Is there still hope for our relationship?”<\/p>\n
“Should we\/ can we separate?”<\/p>\n
“How can we make the separation bearable for all of us?”<\/p>\n
“How can we remain good parents despite our separation?<\/p>\n
These, and a few more, are typical questions that couples ask in my practice.<\/p>\n
Relationships are complicated and they don’t always unfold the way we want them to or how the rose-tinted glasses at the beginning of our relationships make us believe. As in any relationship, differences of opinion are normal. The question is: how do we deal with them!<\/p>\n
Couples therapy might be a good idea if you both have already talked about important topics several times, you both have looked at them from different perspectives and you still could not find a solution that makes you both happy.<\/p>\n
The main aim of couples therapy is to find a way to make it easier for the couple to live together (or to separate) and to make them both more satisfied. Depending on the problem area, this may involve a more practical approach (e.g. how do we manage to distribute the tasks more fairly in order to have more time together?) or a more profound search for causes (e.g. why is it so difficult for partner A to allow closeness?).<\/p>\n
However, it is always about the shared experience as a couple. You can only solve the problems you have together. Therefore, relationship problems should always be discussed in a couples’ setting.<\/p>\n
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